The 10 Things They Don’t Tell You When Starting a Business

Master Your Mindset Before You Burn Out, Break Down, or Give Up

So, you want to start a business? Here’s your warning: it won’t go like the TikTok and Instagram videos say.

You probably won’t make six figures in six months. You will doubt yourself. You will wonder if you’re crazy. And you might lose more than you win in the beginning.

But here’s the truth: that’s normal. Every successful business owner I know has a version of the same story—struggling at the start, unsure if they'd pay rent, thinking about quitting, questioning everything. The early days feel like survival mode. That’s why you have to Master Your Mindset.

This article isn’t just another hype post. This is a behind-the-scenes look at the hard stuff they don’t put on social media—paired with real, actionable steps to help you build a business that lasts.

1. Time Becomes a Whole New Beast

You’re working before work, after work, and often during lunch. A business doesn’t respect your calendar—it becomes your calendar.

What helps: Build systems. Set non-negotiable work blocks and boundaries, even in the chaos.

2. Motivation Wears Off—Discipline Must Be Built

Starting feels exciting. You dream big, post your announcement, buy the domain—and then the silence hits. Now what?

This is where most people stop. The truth is: consistent action on boring days is what separates hobbyists from real business owners. If you only show up when you feel like it, your business will grow in fits and starts—if at all.

Build habits, not hype. That’s the difference.

3. You’ll Feel Like Nobody Gets It

They won’t. Until it works. Then they all “knew you could do it.” In the meantime?

Keep building. Find people who are doing what you want to do and learn from them. Mentorship accelerates growth. This path is a lonely one—especially in the early days when no one sees the vision but you. That’s why community and mentorship matter. You need people who’ve been where you’re going. Who can talk you off the ledge when you’re three invoices behind and wondering what the hell you were thinking.

4. Clients Don’t Show Up—You Hunt Them

Marketing is part of the job—even if you hate it. Learn how to sell. Learn how to storytell. Learn how to follow up (twice). No matter how great your offer is, clients don’t magically appear. You’ll spend more time learning marketing, sales psychology, and outreach tactics than actually doing your craft.

Cold emails, referral asks, social content, networking events—this becomes your full-time job until the pipeline builds. If you’re not selling, you’re not surviving.

Reminder: Nobody buys the best product—they buy the product they know about.

5. Systems Save Sanity

The second you get even one client, you need workflows. Templates, invoices, scheduling, contracts. Trust me—future you will thank you. Even a solo business needs SOPs (standard operating procedures). Start small—checklists, reusable templates, automated reminders. You’re not too early to get organized. You’re too early not to.

6. You Will Do Everything—At First

And that’s okay. Wearing all the hats teaches you what to outsource later. You’re the boss, the assistant, the social media manager, the bookkeeper, and the guy hauling trash out at the end of the day.

This phase is messy, but it’s the boot camp that teaches you your weak spots—and what you want to offload later. Don’t resent the chaos. Document it. It becomes your blueprint when you’re ready to hire.

7. Money Will Stress You Out

Even if you start lean, the pressure builds. A late payment can throw off your week. An unexpected expense can hit hard. You’ll second-guess everything—especially leaving your job (if you did).

Still, this is part of your evolution. Learning to manage unpredictable income, separate business from personal funds, and prioritize spending is growth.

Pro tip: Save a small cushion, and use a spreadsheet or app like Wave or QuickBooks to track every dollar.

8. You’ll Want to Quit

Not once. Many times.

There will be days when nothing clicks. No leads. No replies. Just frustration. It’s normal.

What matters is that you don’t quit on those days. Step back. Regroup. Then come back with fresh eyes. That bounce-back muscle? That’s what makes you a real business owner.

9. Small Wins = Big Momentum

A referral. A $200 sale. A “hey, I see what you’re doing” DM. Those moment matter. Your first paid invoice. Your first testimonial. Your first customer thank-you. These are signs your idea works. Celebrate them. Track them. Stack them.

10. You’ll Become Someone New

This process doesn’t just grow your business—it grows you.

You’ll become more resilient. More decisive. More self-aware. You’ll learn how to handle rejection, negotiate with confidence, think long-term, and solve problems on the fly.

That’s the part no one can hand you—it’s only earned through experience.

What to Actually Do When You’re Just Starting Out

Action Steps to Build with Intention (Not Just Emotion)

Step 1: Get Clear on What You’re Building

Don’t just say “I want to start a business.” Ask:

• What problem am I solving?

• Who am I serving?

• How do I make money doing this?

  
  

Start with clarity, even if it evolves later.

Step 2: Choose a Business Structure

LLC? Sole prop? S-Corp later? Start with LLC for protection and simplicity (especially if you're side hustling). You can file through your Secretary of State’s website or use services like ZenBusiness or LegalZoom.

Step 3: Create a Basic Business Plan

You don’t need a 50-page MBA thesis. Just answer:

• What’s your offer?

• What’s your price?

• Who’s your target?

• How will you reach them?

• What are your costs?

• What’s your goal for the first 90 days?

  
  

Step 4: Set Up Your Financials

• Open a business checking account (keep it separate)

• Use a simple spreadsheet or tool like Wave or QuickBooks

• Start tracking income, expenses, and receipts now

  
  

Step 5: Build Your Brand (Simply)

• Pick a name that’s searchable and clean

• Get a .com (if possible) via Google Domains or GoDaddy

• Use a simple builder like Wix or Squarespace to start a site

• Create a logo on Canva or Fiverr

  
  

Step 6: Start Talking About It

Don’t wait until it’s perfect. Post on social. Tell your friends. Mention it in conversations. You’re not “annoying”—you’re visible.

Step 7: Track What Works

Every win leaves a trail. What platform brought in leads? What message got a reply? Do more of what works. Drop what doesn’t.

The Dream Is Real—But So Is the Work

Building a business is not a highlight reel. It’s hard, personal, and sometimes ugly—but it can also be the most freeing, empowering thing you’ll ever do. The key isn’t talent, funding, or a perfect idea—it’s mindset.

Master Your Mindset, and you unlock the patience, resilience, and consistency that turns “trying” into thriving.

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Whether you’re starting from scratch or rebuilding after burnout, the truth is this: You’re not alone.

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June 6, 2025